Difficulty: having a guy-bestfriend.

it's true. it's soooooooooooo difficult if you have a guy-bestfriend and what, you're so close with him. like, on the phone for hours, share secrets, have fun together, hang out-well you know what usual bestfriends do. it's so difficult having a guy-bestfriend. why? 'cos you could fell in love with him! so what's the problem? the problem is--> you love him but you might think he love you as a bestfriend, and you're not. you love him for real. but you don't wanna ruin your friendship too. it's so complicated, right? pllllllllease give me an advice for this sit-u-ation!!!